Have you recently broke up with your spouse ? Or is it that you are on the verge of breaking up ? Everything seems to be going the wrong way and nothing never seems to please your partner regardless of how hard you try?
The truth is, you will feel tormented, miserable and distressed but you are not alone . Everyday thousands of relationships go down the drain , but the question is, do you want to your relationship to go down the drain ?
So how do you mend a broken heart and save your relationship?
The main factor why most couples find it difficult to mend a broken relationship is because they allow pride to fill their lives . Pride is one thing that will cause your relationship to go down the drain
1. Pride is not wanting to answer the phone when you know is your partner calling
2. Pride is when you try to revenge your ex for what they have done to you – This involves:
* using hurtful words to your partner
* Going way back to things your partner have done a lone time ago etc
Pride can do a whole lot more to separate you from your lover so lets not dwell on the bad but rather lets go to the solution.
Before you go any further , take a deep breathe, relax and reflect on some of the good times you and your partner had together. How he or she made you happy, the smiles that he or she always put on your face and the comfort you feel just to have your partner’s arms around you.
Lets Find Out How To Mend A Broken Relationship And Repeat All Those Good times
After a recent breakup between a couple , the first thing they tend to do is to make a phone call or send a text message to their partner . This may work sometime a more effective way is to get a pen and a clean sheet of paper and a sincere heart, an envelope and some postage stamps.
Think about it, how touching it would be to receive a hand written letter from you partner pouring out his or her heart to you for your forgiveness? You partner will be touched by this move as you took the time out to write a letter from your heart.
But What Should You Put On The paper?
What you are about to hear is may not be what you want to hear, but it has worked thousands of times before and is still working. Here is what you should write:
Agree with your partner by telling him or her that they are right You want then to know that you are very sincere and that everything you write is coming from the heart. Next you will let them know that you appreciate all the good things and times you have and spent together. Now here is the turning point:
You are going to let your partner know you agree to go on with the break up. What did you just read? Yes you did! Let your partner know that you are very sorry and you want them to be happy and if breaking up will make them happy then so be it.But this is not where it ends, this is just the start.
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This post was written by guestauthor on August 30, 2010
